Red redacted names are from shdow5908, as tulinjini has him saved under his real name.

Suicide Threats During Relationship

During shdow5908 and Solarite's relationship, shdow5908 repeatedly stated that he would kill himself if they broke up.

Relationship With Minor (Sexual Discussions)

The new girl shdow5908 was dating was 15 turning 16 at the time, while shdow5908 was 17 turning 18. Their messages include discussions about plans to engage in sexual intercourse.

The age of consent in New York is 17, and 18 in Virginia.

Virginia's Romeo And Juliet laws

Age Gap Confrontation

Zonk confronted shdow5908 about the age gap between Solarite (14) and shdow5908 (17). shdow5908 told Solarite that Zonk wanted them to break up because of the age difference. After this interaction, shdow5908 blocked Zonk.

During the discussion, shdow5908 stated that the age gap was "2 years and 10 months" rather than 3 years and referenced having previously been in a relationship described as "Senior to Freshman." He also referenced the Romeo and Juliet law while discussing the relationship and stated that the relationship was legal.

During the conversation, shdow5908 asked Zonk’s age and later stated that the relationship was "extremely fishy" but also said "im not gonna dump her."

Direct Confrontation

We spoke directly with shdow5908 about the situation. During this conversation, he stated that his behavior was "because he was horny" and said that people have "different boundaries."

During the discussion, he referenced sexual topics involving someone who was 15 at the time. When asked about the age gap, he stated that the age difference was irrelevant and that people shouldn’t be so pressed on it.

Several questions regarding the relationship were asked during the conversation but were not directly answered.